I just read an article titled “90% of men are unattractive to women.”
I agree. It looks like we’re not trying anymore.
Most men are carrying too much body fat and it makes us look weak, soft, and undisciplined.
Either we are carrying our bellies around in a wheelbarrow, or we have the body of a twelve year old boy.
Add to that an unkept, Moses looking beard, with the wardrobe of a homeless person and you end up with the sex life of a Tibetan monk.
Only 24.2% of men participate in daily exercise like sports and recreation. Walking doesn’t count.
Only 8.9% of men train their bodies with weights.
Only 1% of those men train using progressive overload to increase strength and hypertrophy (muscle growth)
Only 1% of men prioritize nutrition and follow a dedicated meal plan. And it shows.
Most men aren’t trying to build a masculine frame. That’s too bad because having muscle makes you more attractive.
You can’t fake having a good body. We need muscle. It affects your bearing, your posture and your confidence.
Muscle growth is an evolutionary survival mechanism to adapt your body to the demands of the environment. To hunt, to gather, to protect and to nurture. Right, I said nurture.
Women still want to feel protected and cared for by someone who is bigger and stronger.
A great physique is appealing in more than romantic ways. It shows discipline. It makes you stand out as someone who takes themself seriously.
The last three jobs I’ve had, the interviewer brought up my body composition. “You look like someone who takes pretty good care of themself.” Right before they offered me the job.
I’m 75 years old and still swinging for the fence…because I can. 🙂
Men, we also need to be doing deep work. Deep work is also attractive.
Deep work is work that is meaningful and done with purpose and rigor. Being on a mission makes us more attractive and also less available.
Trust me, that’s attractive.
No woman wants a man who hangs around the house all day playing video games.
Write a book, start a business, join a group.
Have a plan. Always.
There aren’t enough hours…..
Look, it was the luck of the draw, you drew the “man card” and despite all our imperfections we can change the world for the better.
That is, if we’re strong enough and disciplined enough.
Embrace it and be that one percent!